In some ways, having a small wedding will be much different than the big wedding you see and read about. Having an intimate wedding can be the best route for couples who want to only include friends and close family. Small weddings can be extremely romantic, and allow couples to spend money on other things such as the honeymoon or buying a new home. For most people, a small wedding is a wedding that include less than 200 people. However, most truly “small” weddings are those that consist of less than 100 guests.
One of the first situations you will encounter when planning a small wedding is the reactions of others. A lot of people will have negative reactions, but don’t let them affect you or your decision. You will probably hear a lot of “yes, we planned on having a small wedding too”. People who think it can’t be done simply did not try hard enough. On the other hand, you’re also likely encounter people who envy you because they went through a lot of stress to plan a huge wedding and wish they’d taken a simpler route. Either way, stick to your guns and don’t give into people’s negative reactions.
Believe it or not, a small intimate wedding can create lasting memories that you and your guests can cherish for the rest of your lives. Larger weddings have a tendency to become overwhelming. A small wedding gives everyone the opportunity to enjoy the details and really get to know one another. Another great perk of having a small wedding is the opportunity it gives your guests to create new friendships. A major complaint for a lot of couples on their wedding day is that they didn’t spend enough time with their guests. Having a small wedding eliminates this problem. Small weddings can be highly personal and create the most long lasting memories and allow you to pay more attention to the details such as the bridesmaid dresses and flowers.
If you are having a small wedding, pick the venue wisely. There is no reason to spend a lot of money. Remember that even if you chose to have the wedding at a private home, expenses can still add up. Most venues provide seating, dinnerware, etc. When having your wedding at a private home, these things will have to be rented. The cost of renting these items can add up quickly so remember to plan within your budget. This allows you to free up money that can be well spent on a beautiful bridesmaid dress or custom wedding dress.
The biggest advantage of having a smaller wedding is the reduction of stress and planning involved. People have the tendency to get lost in the wedding planning process and lose sight of the true purpose of having a wedding. This is easy to avoid when you have a small, intimate gathering of friends and loved ones.