It’s important to offer a bride the right amount of love and support on her big day. Sometimes bridesmaids can get carried away with great expectations or selfish motives, which make it hard for the bride to enjoy her wedding. While mistakes are often unintentional, here are some tips to help you be the best bridesmaid you can be on your friend’s wedding day.
Lend a helping hand when it comes to wedding planning and arrangements. Rather than step in on the actual wedding day, make yourself available to help the bride throughout the entire process. You’ll be surprised at how much offering your support throughout the planning experience will be of service to the bride and her groom. Knowing she has someone to rely on and take the weight off of her shoulders will be a very gratifying relief. The best way to determine what the bride needs help with is to ask. Whether she needs you to host the bridal shower, or help with the seating arrangements, you can rest assured that there will be plenty for you to help out with if you offer. Both the bride and the groom will be appreciative of your kind efforts.
Brides can easily become overwhelmed and have plenty of “moments”. Rather than feeding into her emotions, it’s important as a bridesmaid for you to remain calm and positive. If the bride is overly emotional or stressed out, don’t criticize or become annoyed. She most-likely has a lot on her mind and it’s your job to keep her grounded and offer positive feedback and words of encouragement. It’s important to help out where you can with the physical arrangements, but being there for moral and emotional support is just as, if not more important. Keep a positive outlook will eventually wear off on the bride and help her to overcome any hiccups she may experience throughout the wedding planning process and up until the nuptials.
Be Happy About the Bridesmaid Dress
The bride is by no means required to ask you for your input when choosing a bridesmaid dress, but if she does make sure to keep your opinions objective. Base your feedback and factors such as affordability and how flattering it is to your body rather than on personal style. Whether the bride picks a wonderful dress (in your opinion) or not, it is your job to seem appreciative and wear the custom bridesmaid dress with a smile on your face. If you love it, show how thankful you are and if not, go out of your way to make sure you don’t say anything that might hurt the bride’s feelings. After all, you’ll only be wearing the dress for one day.