Planning a wedding nowadays is a much more modernized process than in the past. It is because of this fact that wedding planning no longer has to be a stress inducing endeavor. As long as you keep in mind your needs and the needs of your significant other, planning your big day should be an experience that you enjoy. By refreshing your perspective, everything from the bridesmaid dresses to the wedding cake can be handled with ease.
Include the Groom
Allow the groom to be a part of the wedding planning process. Part of having a modern wedding is remembering to include your groom in the decision making process. Weddings will bring you and your significant lover closer together, and you should both be included in all of the decisions that are made regarding your big day. If your groom doesn’t want to be included in every single decision, ask him which ones are important to him and include him in those decisions. For instance, it may not be important for him to have a say in the bridesmaid dresses, but he may want to express his opinion on the wedding cake.
Don’t force your bridesmaid into unflattering attire. Modern weddings are a way to allow your bridesmaids some freedom when it comes to their bridesmaid dresses. Don’t force them to wear anything that is going to make them feel uncomfortable or unflattering. Take a modern approach by giving guidance, such as the color, to bridesmaids and then allowing them to choose which fit works best for them. Keep in mind that each one of your bridesmaids does not have to match perfectly. Picking out custom bridesmaid dresses should be a fun experience that everyone enjoys.
Put together a menu that is modern and that reflects your personalities. Try to stray away from traditional foods that people would expect to have at a wedding and focus more on what you like. Don’t be afraid to showcase your personal taste preferences by going vegan or ethnic and offering your guests a large variety so they are more likely than not to find something that they like. Also, don’t be afraid to boast local vendors and have your rehearsal dinner at a restaurant that showcases the best food that your city has to offer. This is especially helpful during the summer when vegetables and produce are at their peak and can be shown off to all of your guests.
Say Goodbye to Tradition
There is nothing wrong with a traditional wedding but if you want to plan something more modern, don’t be afraid to throw caution to the wind by stepping away from certain longstanding traditions that may have you missing out on throwing the perfectly modern wedding. Your wedding day is just that-yours. Don’t be afraid of what other people will say and think because chances are they will be refreshed at the idea of something new. People easily tired of the same old thing, and changing things up a bit will give your guests something to talk about for years to come.