One of the biggest mistakes a couple can make is being unorganized during the wedding planning process.
Staying organized will help everything run smoothly and will pay off for you in the long run. Oftentimes, couples will bask in the glow of their engagement for so long that the wedding approaches quicker than they expected, and they are left with only a few months to plan the entire wedding. It’s important to enjoy your engagement, but make sure that you are also planning parts of your wedding in the meantime. Having a beautiful engagement will mean very little if planning your wedding ends up being an unnecessary headache.
Buy a Datebook
Having a calendar or datebook will help you stay organized with appointments and deadlines. You will be surprised at how much there is to keep track of. On the other hand, keeping all your important dates organized it actually really easy with a little organization.
Set Time Aside For Planning
If you’re like most couple, one or both of you are probably working full time. Rather than spread your wedding planning over a few days after work and in between real life duties, set aside days at a time to devote strictly to wedding planning. This will ultimately reduce stress and help you be more productive when it comes to planning your wedding. If your spouse wants to be a part of the process, chose a day when both of you don’t have to work and a day you can both take off work to devote to planning your wedding together. Communication is one of the most important factors of wedding planning. As long as you and your partner are on the same page, your plans should run smoothly. Don’t be afraid to be open about what you like and don’t like and never hold your opinions back unless they are going to hurt another person’s feelings.
You and your partner are not always going to agree 100% and this is okay. Disagreeing from time to time is the sign of a healthy relationship. Be prepared to make small sacrifices and the process will be a lot less of a headache. Compromise is key when it comes to planning a wedding. For the most part, the areas you disagree on will be small compared to the grand scheme of things.
Keep all of your vendor contracts in the same place. Make sure that you have access to important paperwork whenever you need it. Keeping everything in the same place will help you keep track of important documents and have them readily available when you need them. Contracts will contain fees and other important details that you’ll want to keep readily available.