Budget Tips For The Bridesmaid

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When a woman reaches her late 20′s, the wedding invitations begin to pile up and if you’re a chosen one, then you even get to be in the bridal party. However, one thing is for sure – being a wedding guest is a pricey affair, especially if you’re in the wedding party. While you obviously want to be one of your best friend’s bridesmaid’s, it can put a nice dent in your bank account.

So, with that being said, there are plenty of bridal budget saving tips out there, but there are three crucial one’s that are probably the easiest of all.

Figure Out The Dates

      Whether it’s a destination wedding or a destination bachelorette party, the sooner you know, the cheaper the flight will be. Traveling 101 means booking your flight as soon as you know the dates – using a budget site will help you out with finding ticket deals on the airline of the brides choice. The price of travel also goes along with booking your room at the hotel – the sooner the better to ensure there are rooms available.

Don’t Be The Golden Bridesmaid

      Yes, this is one of your best friends and they are getting married – it’s a huge celebration – so, of course you’re excited. However, that does not mean you should volunteer to help out with anything and everything because any bride will take advantage of that (wedding fever changes people). Being your best friend’s bridesmaid is not your career so, it does not require all your undivided attention. The only way you should take on the burden of wedding finances is if they are flying solo with their wedding plans and booking.

Avoid Overspending On Gifts

      If the bride is following tradition with the bachelorette party, bridal shower, and wedding reception well, then you have a lot of gifts to start thinking about. The best road to go down is DIY (do it yourself) gifts because they are cheaper and tend to mean more – there is nothing like watching your already emotional best friend (aka bride to be) open up a scrapbook of your childhood and smile. If you want to buy expensive gifts, then you’re going to end up spending way more than you would have to.

Now, with all those tips being said, the main point is to prioritize and organize – by planning ahead, you’re all set in terms of calming down your stress level!

 

Be An Amazing Bridesmaid

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It’s important to offer a bride the right amount of love and support on her big day. Sometimes bridesmaids can get carried away with great expectations or selfish motives, which make it hard for the bride to enjoy her wedding. While mistakes are often unintentional, here are some tips to help you be the best bridesmaid you can be on your friend’s wedding day.

Wedding Planning

Lend a helping hand when it comes to wedding planning and arrangements. Rather than step in on the actual wedding day, make yourself available to help the bride throughout the entire process. You’ll be surprised at how much offering your support throughout the planning experience will be of service to the bride and her groom. Knowing she has someone to rely on and take the weight off of her shoulders will be a very gratifying relief. The best way to determine what the bride needs help with is to ask. Whether she needs you to host the bridal shower, or help with the seating arrangements, you can rest assured that there will be plenty for you to help out with if you offer. Both the bride and the groom will be appreciative of your kind efforts.

Stay Positive

Brides can easily become overwhelmed and have plenty of “moments”. Rather than feeding into her emotions, it’s important as a bridesmaid for you to remain calm and positive. If the bride is overly emotional or stressed out, don’t criticize or become annoyed. She most-likely has a lot on her mind and it’s your job to keep her grounded and offer positive feedback and words of encouragement. It’s important to help out where you can with the physical arrangements, but being there for moral and emotional support is just as, if not more important. Keep a positive outlook will eventually wear off on the bride and help her to overcome any hiccups she may experience throughout the wedding planning process and up until the nuptials.

Be Happy About the Bridesmaid Dress

The bride is by no means required to ask you for your input when choosing a bridesmaid dress, but if she does make sure to keep your opinions objective. Base your feedback and factors such as affordability and how flattering it is to your body rather than on personal style. Whether the bride picks a wonderful dress (in your opinion) or not, it is your job to seem appreciative and wear the custom bridesmaid dress with a smile on your face. If you love it, show how thankful you are and if not, go out of your way to make sure you don’t say anything that might hurt the bride’s feelings. After all, you’ll only be wearing the dress for one day.