When you are shopping for a custom bridesmaid dress, the most important thing to remember is to keep an open mind, and not to get agitated at your bridal party. There will be times when you may or may not agree with their opinions (and they will definitely have them) but the important thing to remember is that in the end, the final decision is yours.
One Size Fits One (Not All)
Make sure that you bring your entire bridal party when you go to the fittings for the bridesmaid dresses. Without a complete fitting, it will be difficult to determine how the dress will look all around. Just because the dress looks great on one person doesn’t mean that it will fit each bridesmaid the same way. Having everyone try on the dress will not only give you a good mental picture as far as your wedding day is concerned, but it will ensure that you are confident in your decision and that your bridesmaids feel comfortable as well. It’s also fun! Having your bridal party come and try on dresses is a great bonding experience and it will be something that you remember for the rest of your life.
Be Open Minded
While you’re enjoying the time spent with your closest friends, why not have them try on as many dresses as possible? The more variety you allow them to try, the better idea you will have as far as what is and isn’t working with their particular body types. Make sure to listen to their input respectfully without taking it as the final word. Your bridesmaids are entitled to their opinions, but in the end you are the one that is going to be making the ultimate decision.
In order to make the selection a little less painless, try to set a theme for yourself regardless of if your wedding has one. For instance, based on the look and location of your wedding, you could end up learning more towards a casual dress, or a classic look. Having a theme and style in mind will help you narrow down your choices as well as help you be certain in your decision. It’s okay to second guess your choices as well as take time to “mull things over”. Starting the dress search early on will ensure that you have plenty of time to consider all of your options as well as have your bridesmaid try on every type of dress that has peaked your interest. Remember, you might fall in love with more than one dress so you want to give yourself enough time to be able to think about each choice amply.